pangel
08-25-2009, 02:12 AM
Well hello to all out there..I first want to say God Bless to all and give you a little background of myself and my situations..
Im 31 yrs. old and have been serving God for 10yrs now. Which has made me a nonchristian for 21 yrs. of my life. With that said all must know that i have experienced many worldly things, but im so greatful for Gods grace and mercy on me and my life..when i turned 21 i started living for God and now im serving God along with my Beautiful Wife and three children. On the other hand my wife has been a christian since she was a little child due to her father being a Pastor. So there's the catch my father in law is my pastor and he has his own church. Many christians would say that thats awesome and it is but sometimes its hard to ask him about certain questions..
My wife and I have a very open relationship when it comes to asking each other anything but there is one thing that i have not been able to talk to her about...My Father in law has always been very open and helpful whenever we have sexual questions but as for me it becomes very uncomfortable to ask certain ones..so this is where im asking for some help and feeback..the bible states that God made a woman for man and man for woman and i'm totally on the same page and my Pastor always states that it is very important to be able to please one another spirtually and physically...with all that said and laid out.. where are there boundaries to sexuall pleasure between husband and wife.. now dont get me wrong my wife and i have a very good spiritual and physical relationship i guess where im trying to get out of all of this is and here's the big question "Is oral pleasure for both husband and wife wrong and immoral in Gods eyes?" i feel like i should know this answer but i really dont and i have struggled so long to ask such a question...
Im 31 yrs. old and have been serving God for 10yrs now. Which has made me a nonchristian for 21 yrs. of my life. With that said all must know that i have experienced many worldly things, but im so greatful for Gods grace and mercy on me and my life..when i turned 21 i started living for God and now im serving God along with my Beautiful Wife and three children. On the other hand my wife has been a christian since she was a little child due to her father being a Pastor. So there's the catch my father in law is my pastor and he has his own church. Many christians would say that thats awesome and it is but sometimes its hard to ask him about certain questions..
My wife and I have a very open relationship when it comes to asking each other anything but there is one thing that i have not been able to talk to her about...My Father in law has always been very open and helpful whenever we have sexual questions but as for me it becomes very uncomfortable to ask certain ones..so this is where im asking for some help and feeback..the bible states that God made a woman for man and man for woman and i'm totally on the same page and my Pastor always states that it is very important to be able to please one another spirtually and physically...with all that said and laid out.. where are there boundaries to sexuall pleasure between husband and wife.. now dont get me wrong my wife and i have a very good spiritual and physical relationship i guess where im trying to get out of all of this is and here's the big question "Is oral pleasure for both husband and wife wrong and immoral in Gods eyes?" i feel like i should know this answer but i really dont and i have struggled so long to ask such a question...