subconscience

[a.baker]

Or whatever you want to call it. O.k. consider yourself a woman meeting a man and getting a really dark vibe from him. Is that a woman thing being afraid of society and say rape predators or is that a spiritual thing of discerning. Say it was from a distance for months and now you finally met face to face and its worse and stronger and stranger. Also say a man who does not know God feels the same way from afar (hasn't met yet though). Its one of those things where you know something isn't right.

:scratch:

[kay-gee]

Huh?

all the best...

[Jessie]

more than likely something IS wrong.

[a.baker]

Theres a bunch of things that have happened and why it seems somethings wrong on top of the feeling, I just have no clue in what direction its wrong at.

[CoreIssue]

That is a complex one.

Sometimes the Holy Spirit warns us but we also have very complex brains that do not always work on a work, image or such level in our minds.

Ever had a problem you know there is an answer for, go to sleep and wake up know the answer? Your mind put it together without you consciously thinking about it.

Or walking around and you get hit with a realization from things around you that you were not thinking about? Your mind put it together with you being even aware it was doing so?

Same thing here. Our experiences and so on build up information that are sometime pieces, not whole pictures. Our minds recognize the pieces and work to bring them together into a solution. You know there is something there but just don't have the resolution that gives meaning to the pieces.

[a.baker]

:nod: I really think thats what it is. Body language and actions does say a lot about who a person is without having to talk to them. And than up close and personal and talking it rings more true. Could be a keep a distance for safety thing or I feel like a jerk because this person is different and I should empathized and reach out my hand. I should get to know them and introduce Jesus.

Its hard when they don't say more than two words while you ramble and they stare at you and you can tell their thinking something that makes you uncomfortable but what is it. Not at all a blank stare. It could be a million things. Than when the person is willing to pay $200 to $600 to not meet us is even more weird. He rides his bike up and down his driveway starring at our house. If me and my daughter walk to cross the road his mother who lives with him is at the door starring at us and she comes out to only get the mail. He goes to work. He is always peeking under trees staring at us. His mother never comes outside. O.k. the guy seems really normal but yet way off in a very uncomfortable way.

I remember when we lived in Lansing when we were very little we had a neighbor that was scitsophrantic (have no idea on the spelling) and the lady had us girls come in her house from playing and said nothing to my mom. My mom always avoided the lady because she was weird, violent and of course the voices this lady played. My mom found us and said she was scared to death. Things possibly remind me of that in a way.

Its getting harder and harder in our society to know without getting to know and if you get to know you have put yourself in a situation you can't escape. Thats why I asked because I didn't think it was spiritual but I wanted to make sure. I don't think it is but that doesn't mean someones safe.

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LOL oh boy I have done that day dreaming before while driving and came out of it wondering where I was and how I stayed on the road. Usually if I am really tired driving I subconsciously do this to stay awake... :eek: Does that make sense (Need a shaking head no smilie :D)

[CoreIssue]

Anyone who is observant will note things whether they are trying to do so or not. Just something that works on auto.

[Jessie]

hes going to pay to not meet you? why would you be meeting in the first place?
peeking under trees?

your feelings are spot on. something is wrong.
and good to be wary.

how on earth can he seem normal?

[a.baker]

Well its our only neighbor, we live in town kinda and the rest are businesses. Our tree fell in his yard and covered his whole yard from one end to the other. I was outside playing with the dogs and something from the neighbors yard grabbed their attention and it was my neighbor and some guy from a tree service. I had to go over there and grab my dogs. They love people.

Thats when I discovered what was going on. The tree guy was going to charge my neighbor $200 to $600 to remove our tree that fell in his yard. Our neighbor never came over to tell us about it or see if we would remove it or if we had a chainsaw he could borrow or to even let us know. The guy never goes outside but to go to work, mow, take out the trash and check his mail.

My husband has a chainsaw that he borrowed from a friend and went over there the next day and has removed 3/4 of it until the chainsaw broke. It took a long time for the guy to come out of his house to meet my husband. He was over there for at least an hour sweating and working away. Mind you this tree is only a few feet away from his back of his house. He had almost the whole thing removed before he came out and the guys mother that lives with him (well looks like his mother) seems to be even more scared of us than he is. Shes got to be agoraphobic. But the guy, I don't know. He goes to work everyday and I see people going to their house sometimes. He rides his bicycle so he is not physically unable to help.

And he is always starring our way, we have seen him on many occasions peeking under trees looking towards our house. He'll ride his bike up and down his driveway and keep looking over at our house. Mind you I do a lot of dishes by hand and the window looks right at his driveway so I am not being silly peeking around at him. I just happen to notice and its odd.

Me and the tree guy talked together more than me and my neighbor. My neighbor responded when I said stuff but only yes and no type of response.

I mean he could be shy but thats no reason to be acting such a way. And whats up with the starring. We have no weird people, projects or things ever going on here.

[kay-gee]

Sounds like the makings of a good book..."THE NEIBOUR"

all the best,,,