Generational curses.

[InTheWind]

Is there such a thing as Generational curses and if so how can they be broken?

[CoreIssue]

Is there such a thing as Generational curses and if so how can they be broken?
No. But there are generational demons. They can be controlled but not eliminated.

[InTheWind]

Is there such a thing as Generational curses and if so how can they be broken?
No. But there are generational demons. They can be controlled but not eliminated.


So would a whole family be effected by demons, trates that are passed down such as selfishness is not a curse or demons?

[CoreIssue]

Is there such a thing as Generational curses and if so how can they be broken?
No. But there are generational demons. They can be controlled but not eliminated.


So would a whole family be effected by demons, trates that are passed down such as selfishness is not a curse or demons?
Things like that are plain old simple human nature coupled often with how families are raised.

The scientific term for traits that run in families are herent traits, which mean they are there but an be controlled versus inherent, which one has no control over.

The more corrupt a culture the more you will see people giving into them.

[Jessie]

one thing I've noticed was since I was a child about 4 but I did have about 3 hard experiences which would have let them in, I fear rejection with a passion, and feel I'm never wanted.

and then my mind just goes right into it. I get hit hard. then with those who do things that are just cruel it does'nt help and adds to it. I dont trust easily, back then I withdrew into myself because of it.

now that I am more aware and know when they hit me I tell them to go away.
sometimes it takes a few times but then they leave me alone.

they bring so much gloom.

a lot of fear and they used it to destroy me (almost).

[Chrystalwuzhere]

Many behaviors are as a result of a person's indoctrination and upbringing and surrounding.

My sister-in-law came up in a family that fought and feuded constantly. When my brother married her, she had picked up that behavior from being raised in it. After being married to my brother and being around my family, she realized that families didn't act like that. Me and my brothers can get irritated at each other and snap at each other, but then it's over and we say, "Hey, bub, pass the salt." She couldn't get over that. She told me that if her sisters and brothers snapped at each other like me and my brothers did, they would have a nuclear fallout, and not speak for ten years. They all hate her now (her own family), and refuse to come around her. Well, everyone except for her brother. She has no use for them, so she has cut them out of her life. They do nothing but cause fights and misery in the family. So, she cut them off.

My brother and my family taught her what it was truly like to be a family, and now she tells people that her husband's family ARE her family. We love her, we want her, and we have been patient with her as my brother was able to help her change her way of seeing things. She's a completely different person now. But, her sisters who she cut off? Still fighting, and still causing turmoil.

There's a time when you just have to cut 'em loose. You can't solve their problems, you shouldn't have to suffer because of their attitudes. If they can't come into your home and show respect, then let them not come at all. We had to do it with Dad's side of the family as well. Our life has been peaceful since then.

Making the break away from family is necessary where there can be no resolve or healing. And if the family is a bad influence on you, then definitely separate from them.

There are so many different scenarios that can be discussed in a situation like this. I've got so much I could say right now but I'm babbling just a wee bit. I think I need to go to bed. My eyes are crossing and I can't hardly type my message. Ya gotta love sleeping pills! I had to delete that exclamation point three times because I kept hitting the "@" key. Okay, I'm loopy and tired of hitting the backspace key to delete my typos. I'm gonna go to bed and sleep now. When I first started typing this post my sleeping pill hadn't started working yet and my post made sense. I knew what it was I was trying to say, and started saying it, but now the pill is working with gusto now@! It picks a fine time to kick in. I'm fairly sure I might have just a little bit more to say in this conversation. Never mind...I'm going to bed.